Tuesday, 26 May 2015

Quality of life
"The best day of life is the one on which you decide your life is your own. No apologies or excuses. No one to lean on, rely on, or blame. The gift is yours - it is an amazing journey - and you alone are responsible for the quality of it. This is the day your life really begins."

Thursday, 18 December 2014

To Be Glad About Breakup
Breakups can make you feel shitty, suddenly your world comes down crashing and you feel weak in your knees, and your heart! But hey! all you have to do is give things time and come out strong. Soon some amazing things will happen that will make you feel glad about your breakup. Want to know what are those awesome things? Read on…
Constant nagging is finally over

Where are you? Who are you with? What are you doing there? It’s gone.

The liberty to check out anyone and everyone along with your friends

You don’t have to think 100 times before looking at a person you find attractive. Showing 3 o’clock and 9 o’clock will be fun again.

No need to watch films that don’t match your taste

Thank God! Finally you have your say in watching films that you like.

A lot of money is saved
Phone bills have gone down + lunch/dinner dates are gone = A lot of MONEY.

Make friends with anyone

Whatever the gender doesn’t matter. Go right ahead and make more friends.

No need to lie anymore

You don’t have to lie to your partner to go out with friends or lie to your family to go out with your partner. it’s a win win.

Time for yourself

Now you can read as much as you want, watch films, TV shows, listen to music or learn something new. You have all the time in the world.

Spend more time with your family and friends

All the complaints of you constantly being busy are gone. Family and friends are happy, that makes you happy. Happiness everywhere.

Take spontaneous and random trips

No one will stop you and say things like – don’t go, why this sudden trip? It is not safe so, don’t go etc..

Change cities and countries without a second thought
No one’s gonna hold you back. You are the master of your life and you have the liberty to do what you want to do.

Feel at peace
Constant fights are gone. Constant efforts of making your relationship work is gone. You finally are at peace.

Finally you have the time to think for yourself and make your decisions
All these days it was all about your family, friends and the person you were dating. Now finally you have time to think for yourself. What you like and what you deserve will be valued more.

You realize your ability of being independent

You were sort of dependent on that person, but not anymore. Now you can make your own choices and own them.

Love yourself

A breakup only gets you out strong and you start to love yourself better. Cuz at the end it is of utmost importance to love yourself.

Overcome the phase of feeling lonely

You’re no more afraid of feeling lonely. You come out so strong that you like your own company and you simply never feel left out.
Good ol’ days are back, feel glad that the breakup happened. There is someone amazing waiting for you. Until that person shows up enjoy your singlehood and go crazy!

Tuesday, 25 February 2014

Sometimes the smallest of thinqs...
... trigqer memories so
strange and so beautiful...
... that they leave us speechless...
Memories are a funny thing...
The small pieces of our past.
They are always safe in our memories.
Memories are like chocolate boxes...
Once open...

... you can't stop at just one.

Wednesday, 19 June 2013

yEh jAwaAnI hAi dEeWani . . . .

Scene 1-When Naina decides to take a break and go for the trekking trip with all the unknown people.
# This shows that life is too short to be occupied. Decisions should be quick and should be the ones that give you "permanent happiness instead of temporary one."

Scene 2-When Naina and Bunny trekk the Boota hill knowing the rumours about it being haunted.
# This shows that live life fearlessly. There is no better feeling than overcoming your fears and cherishing the later moments.

Scene 3-When Aditi sends an emotional video message to Bunny inviting him for her marriage,considering that he wont come as he will be busy in his professional dream life.
# This shows that no matter what you do,where you work,what you have achieved,you will always be that special friend of a few people's life. Some things can never change even with time.

Scene 4-When Aditi finally notices that Bunny has come to attend her marriage and she jumps out like any random wildest frog on earth.
# This shows that some people may consider you as a major priority in your life without even letting you know. Nothing might give them happiness than just spending time with you. "Now it is upto you whether you want to understand that role of priority and carry on or just prioritize your own value and life and its goals and just neglect the happiness of others. This may give you a luxury life. But it surely wont give you comfortable life."

Scene 5-When Bunny and Avi fight on the issue of not  being in touch with each other since 8 years.
# This shows that you need to find time to speak to the people around you even in your busiest of the schedules. It may be difficult but when you look back after neglecting it,all you see is the fault of others and not yours. No one asks you to text or call at every moment. Afford one chat in a week to keep the relatioship healthy. Take interest in your friends life. Check out whats happening and if you could help him/her to make it better.

Scene 6-When Bunny's dad refuses him to go to America as he would be alone but yet he lets him go because he would be happy if his son is happy.
# This proves that parents could do anything for their children. Even though if its at the sake of their own personal happiness. Its upto us whether we understand,respect and work for our dreams and their happiness or not. They would never show the care that they have for us. We need to understand it.

Scene 7-When Bunny has to quit his dreams for his love Naina and peace and has to stay back and not go to Paris.
# Sometimes,life puts you in a situation when you are left absent minded. In such situations,always listen to what your heart says. Empty mind is a devils workship. You sometimes need to re-plan your goals and ambitions according to the situations. "Not only yours,but the happiness of the person with you also matters." This is the point we generally tend to forget as we have adapted to this selfish mentality of the mean world.

Well,the movie has many such scences which give us a lot to learn if looked upon it in that way. It is upon us how we perceive things. This is my perception. A positive one towards life.

Thursday, 3 January 2013

There is nothing like perfect life or ultimate happiness. But many a times, you find yourself dreaming about that unattainable bliss. Tough goal may be achievable, crazy dreams realizable but some life you desire so much, some person you love so much, is just not made for you. “Impossible is nothing” or “Nothing is impossible”, both way round, stands useless here. For some stuck in situations of life, where despite all sweet ingredients of love with someone, you are bound to have separate destinations….and the thing you at the most can consoled yourself with is — to share the journey of life with the one. Don’t know how long but the longer the better. Understood and compromised and restrained but human heart still wishes for the impossible and laments for the lost chance time again. Some songs successfully capture all such emotions in simple words.
There must be some place where you and I can be together
Where only our emotions reign supreme
Where I can see morning sun rays through your lashes and
and hear Moon’s lullabies in your arms
Where is that world – if at all it exists?